The Closeness Inventory

Q: What is The Closeness Inventory?

The Closeness Inventory is a practical relationship ebook that helps two people build a stronger shared life using three levers: Frequency (real undistracted time together), Diversity (how many parts of life are shared), and Strength (kind, mutual influence). It is inspired by the Relationship Closeness Inventory research tradition from Berscheid, Snyder, and Omoto (1989).

Q: What is relationship closeness according to this guide?

Closeness is treated as shared life structure, not only feelings. Couples can feel love and still have thin ordinary weeks. The guide focuses on how lives actually interconnect through time, variety of shared domains, and mutual influence.

Q: Is The Closeness Inventory a clinical test or therapy?

No. It is an educational self-help guide. It is not psychotherapy, not medical advice, and not a clinical diagnostic instrument. It does not republish proprietary questionnaire items from the original RCI.

Q: How is this different from checklist dating advice?

Checklist dating ranks partners by status metrics such as income, looks, and lifestyle optics. The Closeness Inventory teaches the opposite skill: building reciprocal shared life after care already exists, using Frequency, Diversity, and Strength.

Q: What formats are included in the digital bundle?

The bundle includes the Together edition PDF and EPUB, the Designed edition PDF, EPUB, and HTML reader, an audiobook MP3, cover art, and a one-page starter checklist.

Q: Who is The Closeness Inventory for?

It is for couples who care about each other and want ordinary weeks to feel warmer; for partners who feel distant and want a practical path back; and for people tired of treating relationships like inventory management.

Q: Where can I buy The Closeness Inventory?

Buy the digital bundle at https://buy.stripe.com/14A14obLhaGf3rifeK6Ri0c. After payment you are redirected to https://www.aiperth.relationshipbook.aiperth.co/thanks to download files.

Q: What is Frequency Diversity Strength in relationships?

Frequency is shared undistracted time. Diversity is the number of life domains shared. Strength is kind mutual influence. Together they describe closeness as interdependence.

Q: Is this the same as the academic Relationship Closeness Inventory test?

No. It is inspired by that research tradition and translates the ideas into practical couple guidance. It does not provide the proprietary questionnaire item bank as a clinical instrument.

Frequently asked questions

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What is The Closeness Inventory?

A practical couple ebook that teaches closeness as shared life using Frequency, Diversity, and Strength.

What do Frequency, Diversity, and Strength mean?

Frequency: real undistracted time together
Diversity: many shared domains of life
Strength: kind, mutual influence

Is it based on research?

Yes. It is grounded in the Relationship Closeness Inventory tradition associated with Berscheid, Snyder, and Omoto (1989), translated into everyday practice.

Is it therapy or a clinical test?

No. Educational self-help only. Not medical advice. Not a diagnostic instrument.

Who should use it?

Couples who care about each other and want warmer ordinary weeks; partners who feel drift; people rejecting checklist ranking as their main relationship skill.

What formats are included?

Together PDF/EPUB, Designed PDF/EPUB/HTML, audiobook MP3, one-page starter.

How much does it cost?

Launch price USD 19 via Stripe.

Where do I buy it?

Stripe checkout · after payment go to /thanks for download.

Is this an official movie tie-in?

No. Any cultural commentary about checklist dating is independent educational marketing only.

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