THE CLOSENESS INVENTORY — ONE-PAGE STARTER
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Closeness = shared life structure, not only feelings.
Three levers (Berscheid, Snyder and Omoto, 1989):

1) FREQUENCY — undistracted time together this week
2) DIVERSITY — different parts of life you share
3) STRENGTH — kind, mutual influence (both directions)

This week (both agree):
[ ] Protect 2 blocks of real time (phones down)
[ ] Add 1 new shared lane (errand, plan, hobby, talk topic)
[ ] Ask 1 influence question: "What would help you this week?"

Rule: build together. No score-chasing. No ranking each other.
